If any of you are raising a cup this weekend (and I know y'all will be) please say a toast to the best horse ever. Montgomery Jack aka Monty was my best friend and we had to put him down yesterday. It was surely the worst day I have ever had. Even the vet was crying by the end of it. It's a vision I will never forget.
Earlier this summer, he suffered a trailer accident that could have ended his jumper career due to a ranch-hand's incompetence. He opened the gate prematurely in the trailer and Monty spooked, causing him to bash his head on the side of the trailer door. However, much pampering and several vet visits later, he was recovering nicely and back under saddle.
A couple of days ago, he started foaming from his nose and I thought it might have been related to his injury, but it turned out that he had an inoperable mass on the left side of his head. I just couldn't see him in pain any more, so he took one last trailer ride to the vet yesterday. After so much adversity he was back under saddle, only to have this happen.
Out here on Vancouver Island, the horse society is gonna miss him. Of course, not as much as me.
So long friend, Momma loves you. I'm sure you are somewhere in a field full of the grass you loved so much, harassing the mares and looking for the next oxer to jump.
l'll see you again someday buddy, and I'll bring the saddle. There will be no trailers there, and we'll ride free and hard.
My late grand dad McHab was a farmer who was "the" horse guy. And I bet right about now he is rubbing Monty's pretty head. I think they are both in great company!
Thanks Nil, but I'm not so sure about that...he was one of a kind. Even when being euthanized, he went peacefully and without hurting anyone (physically, at least). He could be grumpy with other horses, but never with people, especially "his" people. He was happiest when running free or looking for the next jump, or simply when I pulled up and opened my car door with a treat ready for him.
And thanks to all for indulging this sobbing mess of a woman and her daughter! Your kind words mean a lot.
Thanks Nil, but I'm not so sure about that...he was one of a kind. Even when being euthanized, he went peacefully and without hurting anyone (physically, at least). He could be grumpy with other horses, but never with people, especially "his" people. He was happiest when running free or looking for the next jump, or simply when I pulled up and opened my car door with a treat ready for him.
And thanks to all for indulging this sobbing mess of a woman and her daughter! Your kind words mean a lot.
I said time heals - it makes the pain easier to bear and less intense - but it does not erase the wonderful memories you had of your wonderful friend. I went through the same thing about four years ago with a beloved dog who died of a brain tumour (and too many times with family members), so I speak from experience. I hope these words, and those of the others and those closest to you, comfort you at this hard time.
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Time flies like an arrow. Fruit flies like a banana.
I hope you & your daughter are doin' a little bit better today. I'm sure you aren't... you've just lost a family member, but I thought I'd send you my hope. The only thing I can say is... time doesn't heal all wounds (in my opinion) but it certainly makes it a bit more bearable as the days/weeks/months pass.
It kinda sounds to me like the planned trip to Montreal was fate's way of knowin' & steppin' in to give ya something .....A) to be excited about & look forward to.... B) to take your mind off things from time to time ... & C) will give you a break from the constant reminders that are all around your home (as I'm sure there are) even if it is only ofr a weekend (or week in your case )
His memory will never disappear & that is a good thing. Memories keep the spirit of the departed alive along with the smiles & love shared between the 3 of you.